Think about your garden. A lot of effort goes into it every spring. The ground is tilled and the soil is hopefully dark and filled with moisture and nutrients. The seeds are chosen and planted with much thought and care. And then the wait. Doing nothing. Watching. And then, after doing nothing, there might be a little peek of green that pokes through the surface. Is it a sprout or a weed? Oh, it's a weed. Just leave it. Do nothing. Until, not so suddenly, after weeks of doing nothing (which is an action by the way), the entire garden is covered with weeds (the reaction) and my harvest will certainly be affected.
Now think about your marriage. In the beginning, a lot of action is taken to nurture your relationship. We all know this. Leaving little notes, wearing that favorite dress when you'd really prefer yoga pants, spending time together just talking (even when there is housework to be done). Nurturing your partner and your union is hard work. I'm not proud of the fact that over the years I sometimes chose to do nothing. Just leave it. Do nothing. And then not so suddenly, after weeks (months) of doing nothing, my marriage was suffering. We found ourselves trying to dig out of the weeds that had begun to overgrow the harvest.
I consider then, how Newton's Law applies to my spiritual relationships as well. You see, there is no standing still. We are all either nurturing our faith or slowly allowing the weeds to smother us. If we are not moving closer to God we are moving away from Him.
One Lord, one faith, one baptism ~Ephesians 4:5




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